It’s summer and it should be a time when we can slow down a bit and enjoy the beauty of nature, family and friends. Most of us live very scheduled, hectic days that rarely allow for times of renewal. How often do you find yourself responding to the question, “How are you doing? with an answer of “Very busy!” It’s become the norm of our lives and it’s hurting our bodies and brains, which is threatening our mental and physical health.
Studies show that stress – the nearly unavoidable side effect of constantly pushing our limits – can lead to a variety of illnesses, from depression and anxiety to gastrointestinal problems and headaches. I remember thinking it was a great skill to be able to multi-task. The latest research shows we’re actually getting less done working this way.
Today, I’m going to suggest you consider a different approach: slow down, focus on people vs. your to-do list, uni-task vs multi-task, and overestimate how long a job will take. Choose one day a week to do very little. Think about how your busyness is affecting your long-term health.
Here are a few tips to help you learn to slow down:
Seize the moment vs. Seize the day:
Why not try easing into your day by setting your alarm 10 minutes earlier so you’re not so rushed first thing in the day. Maybe you stretch your body a few minutes in bed before getting up, or just allow for a slower pace starting your day. I really appreciate some quiet time first thing in the morning, even if I have to get up a bit earlier.
Take a 1 minute anti-stress break as needed:
You can instantly derail the stress response and move into the present moment by simply closing your eyes and taking 5 deep breaths. Try it for yourself and notice how much different you feel in your body from this simple technique.
Change your evaluation system:
Stop measuring your self-worth by your list of accomplishments. Make it less about crossing things off your to-do list, and more about what’s in your heart, how you feel, and how you treat people. At the end of your life, the relationships you build and how you treat people will become your greatest legacy. Life is a journey meant to be enjoyed, not just checked off.
Leave some open space in your calendar:
This was a tough thing for me to do for a very long time. I am a big scheduler and have so many things I enjoy, but I have learned to leave some open spaces in my calendar. Things come up and it is a serious treat when you end up with an afternoon without anything you have to do.
Let me know a few things you do to slow yourself down.
*** Peace Be Still ***